Above is a 14 year old prep (came to PEA at 13) whose face as been obscured to protect his identity. (Also blurred is the Bernie sign above his head- feel the Bern kid.)
I give you this to show a rough approximation of the room I will enter today. F is basically packed- mostly thanks to my incredible friend lexi. But we have agreed to help another kid from SF whose parents couldn't come. Apparently his room is legendary in its disorder.
F's room was not without its surprises. He had an almost bucket sized amount of change by his bed: "it just doesn't feel like money mommy" yes well it is, and it is too heavy to pack, too ridiculous to store , so I went to the bank and asked for help. Apparently they could not, until lexi said she would stuff the coins into rolls, so the bank would exchange them.
This is a hero in my book- rolling the little darling's coins into fifty bucks worth of bills; while he is sharing his deep insights on Kierkegaard around a two hundred year old oak table.
Oh and then she agreed to store his enormous electric skateboard at her sister's house an hour a way. Needless to say I bought dinner.
It's understandably whacky being here this time of year: seniors are sad and close to being out of control (we witnessed a bunch of them jumping off the bridge into the murky river; strictly verboten); the younger kids are nearly drowning in finals plus moving out of their rooms.
F is , thanks to me and Lexi and his natural temperament; rather relaxed. But all the kids are ready so ready to go home.
The principal here said she sees the school as a very large trampoline with protective sides on it.
Within that area the kids can bounce as high and as weird as they want. But they are protected from really bad ideas. I see it more like my kid has been in a martini shaker- it's been fun, and exciting; but he's had enough shaking for a while.
Pray for me this afternoon!! Then dinner at the Herneys with plenty of fermented beverages; because in addition to her coin rolling talents; Lexi doesn't drink and has the rental car. Thank ya Jesus...
Xx